LOVE THIS! Hey, reader. Get this!
As a purveyor of... extra curricular adult activities (caugh caugh BDSM), I recognize this checklist. Not in content rather in form. It's very similar to what lifestylers use in negotiation before a decidedly safe scenes in the throws of passion. I already gave this to my entire Motley that is currently forming before session zero, and I think it set a good foundation. I used a simpler form for them to freeform write out the main potential triggers. Then made it optional for them to fill out an "extended" checklist. Most opted for using it and it sparked some great conversation and has me as the ST feeling very confident I will provide a fun and safe space for them. My mind is a bit dark, so I was having some safety concerns for their sake already till I found this resource! Thank you!
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